Former Blazer remembered

Ayodele Terry, a 1998 Blair graduate who passed away on May 2 due to cardiac arrest, will be remembered for more than just her athletic achievements. "She was really sweet and caring," said her brother, junior Alieu Terry. "I loved just joking around with her."

In her 21 years, Ayodele, nicknamed Dele, made a great impact in the Blair community. As a young teen, Dele was actively involved in her church, serving as an Acolyte and a junior Daughter of the King.

While in high school, Dele was a standout in multiple sports. In her junior year, she was part of the 24-3 State Finalist basketball team. As a senior, Dele led the field hockey team to an 8-4 record, scoring 13 goals and earning MVP honors.

Despite her small stature, Dele possessed tenacity and the desire to win, making her a fierce competitor. "She gave her all out on the field," said friend and former basketball coach Linda Wolf, now an assistant principal. "For such a skinny thing, she was so physically strong and mentally tough."

That toughness earned Dele a University of Pittsburgh scholarship. But, according to Alieu, being separated from loved ones was difficult for Dele, and she returned home a year later. "Friends and family were really important to her. I know for a fact that's why she came back," said Alieu.

Dele remained in the area, sharing an apartment with friends until she passed away. Her older brother, Calvin Grey-Coker, was relieved to know that his sister's passing was painless. "She's in a better place and didn't suffer," said Grey-Coker.

At Dele's funeral, which took place May 11 at St. Mary Magdalene Episcopal Church, relatives and friends alike gathered to remember her. Grey-Coker made an impromptu tribute to his sister, fondly recalling both Dele's love for Mickey Mouse and her unique humor.

Wolf, like Grey-Coker, remembers Dele's lovable and relaxed personality. According to Wolf, Dele was well-liked by all and was "very down to earth."

As their coach-player relationship developed into a friendship, Wolf got to know Dele's "sarcastic wit" and great sense of humor. "What I remember about her is that she always made me laugh. Dele was amazing," said Wolf.

Dele's memory will remain with those she left behind, especially her family: her brothers and her parents, Alieu Sr. and Admire Terry. "I can't say I've coped yet," said Grey-Coker. "Every time I do something or go somewhere, she's going to be there."